Thank you all so much!!! I have been poring through your suggestions. Everyone was very helpful. My son is going to be thrilled he's going to get his soy drumstix!

(and it's fine if they are just vegetarian for him...he and my husband are pretty much overtly vegan but they are definitely more relaxed/non label-reading vegans as far as dairy/eggs are concerned...my 4 year old wants to know what is in everything - as do I, and my 3 year old is still TBD, ha)
As far as what was more important - sightseeing or food...well...that's hard to say...kind of food, although like I said, last time it was a pain not planning it out beforehand with our activities. I think we are going to stay 2 nights at Anaheim for our Disney day, then we're going to head up to Sequoia for a couple of days and end up at Santa Monica. Thanks for the Ambrose suggestion - am considering it! We are also going to Animal Acres for the meat-out/open house event I guess?
Thanks, again. I'll let ya know where we went/what I thought